Generally, elderly parents want to remain living in their own home. However, remaining in
the home becomes a concern when children see their parents slowing down,
perhaps even having trouble with handling stairs and doing general daily
activities. Yet, with parents’ mental and physical health currently not
creating problems, there seems to be no imminent need to search out support
services or other accommodations for aging parents.
This is now the time to evaluate the home to make it safe and secure for your loved
ones — now and in the near future — in anticipation of aging disabilities
that may occur. Help and support are available. The nation as a whole is more
aware of elderly needs and services and products are becoming available at an
The Bureau of Labor Statistics states, “Employment of
personal and home care aides is projected to grow by 51 percent between 2006
and 2016, which is much faster than the average for all occupations. The
expected growth is due, in large part, to the projected rise in the number of
elderly people, an age group that often has mounting health problems and that
needs some assistance with daily activities.” Bureau of labor
Statistics-Occupational Outlook Handbook, 2008-09 Edition
This growing need for aides and services also encompasses
- home remodeling
services — making a home more serviceable to the elderly;
- safety alert
systems and technology;
- motion sensors
to monitor movement;
services — using home-based computer systems for the doctors office or a
nurse to monitor vital signs and
- even a pill
dispenser that notifies when it is time to take medication.
Where do you begin to make sure your elderly family member is safe and managing well
in his or her home?
Visit often and at different times of the day and night. Make note of daily
activities that appear challenging and where changes might be made to add
safety and convenience. Remove rugs that slide — causing a fall — and move
furniture with sharp edges. Set the water heater at a lower temperature. This
will protect their older sensitive skin from scalds and burns. Be sure smoke
detectors and carbon monoxide detectors are in place.
Bathrooms are a hazard area for the elderly. Grab bars by the toilet and shower are a
must to help prevent falls. There are easy to install bars at your local
hardware store if you want to do the work yourself. Another item that is good
to have is a shower stool or chair.
If you are not sure of what needs to be done, consider hiring a professional.
There are companies that specialize in home remodeling and accommodation for
seniors. Michelle Graham of Accessible Design by Studio G4 says about
senior home remodel projects,
“The main thing we incorporate in all of our projects is a
careful study of needs and potential needs that may develop throughout a
Keep in mind what future home adjustments might be needed for
your parents to “age in place” in their home.
Home safety or medical alert companies provide GPS-based bracelets
or pendants to track the elderly at home who tend to wander. Or the companies
may provide alarm devices such as pendants or bracelets which allow the elderly
to alert someone if there has been a fall or a sudden health-related attack. In
the event an alarm has been triggered, a 24 hour monitoring service will alert
the family or medical emergency services or call a neighbor depending on
previous instructions. In addition there are companies that will install motion
sensors in the home to monitor the elderly on a 24 hour basis.
Don’t forget your parents’ community as a valuable resource for helping them stay in their home. Take Margaret Muller as an example. At 82 years of age, Margaret lives alone in her small home. She manages very well with the help of her local Senior Center. The Center’s “Senior Companion” program sees that Margaret is taken to the store for groceries and other needs and checks in with her often to see how she is doing. Once a day, the Senior Center delivers a hot healthy meal to her door. Having these services and visits gives Margaret the help she needs and peace of mind that she is not alone.
Neighbors, local church groups, senior centers and city centers are some places to look
for assistance. Most of the time there is little or no cost for these services.
Your state aging services unit is a valuable community resource. The National Area
on Aging website www.aoa.gov states:
“AoA, through the Older Americans Act and other legislation, supports programs that help older adults maintain their
independence and dignity in their homes and communities. In addition AoA
provides funding for a range of supports to family caregivers.”
Some of the programs the site lists are:
“Supportive Services and Senior Centers
National Family Caregiver Support Program
Grants for Native Americans
Nursing Home Diversion Grants
Aging & Disability Resource Centers
Evidence-Based Disease Prevention
Long-Term Care Planning
Alzheimer’s Disease Grants
Naturally Occurring Retirement Communities”
A few thoughts on hiring home care aides or live-in care givers.
The classifieds are filled with people looking for work as aides to the elderly.
Many of these aides are well-qualified, honest people who will do a good job;
but, of course, there will be some not so reputable. If you are looking to hire
someone, be sure you interview and check references and qualifications. You
will be responsible for scheduling that person and doing payroll and taxes as
well. Be very sure you hire someone trustworthy, as the elderly seem to trust
these helpers more than they should and therefore can easily be taken advantage
A professional home care service will eliminate your employment concerns.
Professionally-provided aides are usually bonded and service is guaranteed.
Home care companies take care of the scheduling and payment of their employees.
Home care companies cater to the elderly in their homes by offering a variety
of services. Please take the time to visit our website for further information.
A & D Home Health Solutions
These providers represent a rapidly growing trend to allow people
needing help with long term care to remain in their home or in the community
instead of going to a care facility. The services offered may include:
- grooming and dressing
- recreational activities
- incontinent care
- handyman services
- teeth brushing
- medication reminders
- bathing or showering
- light housekeeping
- meal preparation
- respite for family caregivers
- errands and shopping
- reading email or letters
- overseeing home deliveries
- dealing with vendors
- transportation services
- changing linens
- laundry and ironing
- organizing closets
- care of house plants
- 24-hour emergency response
- family counseling
- phone call checks
- and much more.
Day, Director of the National Care Planning Council states,
“Care in the home provided by a spouse or a child is the
most common form of long-term care in this country. About 73% of all long term
care is provided in the home environment typically by family caregivers.”
As their caregiver, you can make the difference in the quality of
life for your aging parents and if staying in their home is a possibility, you
have the resources to make it happen.
Dan Fisher RN, BSN
A & D Home Health Solutions, Inc